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Life-Giving Relationships (a Simple Prayer)

encouraging others with love and gentleness

I bet you are an amazing encourager to people. I’m guessing that in many of your relationships, you excel at loving well and drawing people to the experience of Christ’s love. With your words and acts of gentleness you are giving life.

God has strategically placed encouragers in my life. Recently He has been highlighting for me, the intentional way several people affirm the good they see in me. I am strengthened every time I am exposed to these people. I sense God inviting me to purposefully excel at this life-giving ministry in my relationships.

Lately, I have found myself led by the Holy Spirit to demonstrate God’s compassion for people who are treated like outcasts. Without feeling burdened or worried, I sense His prompting to reach out and speak life. He has also given me an open door to pray over the phone regularly with this friend. God is giving me a front row seat to the life-transforming power of His love in action and I am sincerely filled with joy over it. My heart is pregnant with hope for her.

encouraging others with love and gentleness

Maybe you are in a relationship with someone who uses words of strife and acts of contention to express their pain and need for help. I’ve been there recently. My flesh screams for peace and my reaction has been sheer frustration at the negative reactions in spite of my love and sacrifices. Graham Cooke reminded me this week that every problem that comes into my life points to a provision that God is eager to share with me. I’m so thankful He has taught me to find evidence of His unlimited resources and strength in His Word and to access them with prayer.

Today I’d like to share a simple prayer with you inviting God to release His good and perfect gifts for others through each of us.

Lord show me how to help _____ do what is right and build them up in You. Fill my mouth with affirming words.  Fill my mind with Your perfect wisdom on how to share the truth with great love. Teach me to demonstrate the high value You place on ______’s life.

Use me to model the peace that comes from living in harmony with You.

You chose to speak to Elijah in a gentle whisper. Thank You for being gentle and kind with me. I need Your Holy Spirit to guide me to do the same with ______.

All things are possible because of Your glorious and unlimited love, resources and power are at work within me.  

Victory is in Your hands and I am in You.

In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen

Scripture References for the Above Prayer

We should help others do what is right and build them up in the Lord.  Romans 15:2 

The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences. Proverbs 18:21

If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you. He will not rebuke you for asking. James 1:5

Instead, we will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of his body, the church. Ephesians 4:15

Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other. Romans 12:10

And this righteousness will bring peace. Yes, it will bring quietness and confidence forever. Isaiah 32:17

So letting your sinful nature control your mind leads to death. But letting the Spirit control your mind leads to life and peace. Romans 8:6

And after the earthquake there was a fire, but the LORD was not in the fire. And after the fire there was the sound of a gentle whisper. 1 Kings 19:12

But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things! Galatians 5:22-23

So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Galatians 5:16a

The LORD is compassionate and merciful, slow to get angry and filled with unfailing love. Psalm 103:8

I pray that from his glorious, unlimited resources he will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit. Ephesians 3:16

Jesus looked at them intently and said, “Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But with God everything is possible.” Matthew 19:26

But you belong to God, my dear children. You have already won a victory over those people, because the Spirit who lives in you is greater than the spirit who lives in the world. 1 John 4:4

For whatever is born of God overcomes the world; and this is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith. 1 John 5:4

And they have defeated him by the blood of the Lamb and by their testimony. Revelations 12:11a

He may have a great army, but they are merely men. We have the LORD our God to help us and to fight our battles for us!”  2 Chronicles 32:8a

About Jennifer O. White

I'm a simple wife who has discovered God's amazing gift of prayer. Here at Prayerfully Speaking I share my journey of unwrapping this gift. God invites us to ask Him, but His enemy works diligently to keep that from happening. I hope to offer you encouragement to believe God is ready to pour more into your life than you've ever imaged.

7 Replies

  1. Michelle Kirkbride

    Thank you for this timely post! Michelle @

    1. You are SO welcome Michelle! Thrilled that God is moving in power to meet your needs.

  2. Annie Chapman

    Thank you very much for the post. Since I have really starting digging into God’s word, and a few things have happen, someone pointed out to me that i have the gift of prayer. And the gift of attracting people with all kinds of problems. They always seek me out for conversation, counseling, sounding board and prayer. I have actual prayed parts of this prayer in some way. So thank you very much, for scripture that goes along with your prayer. This is something i definetly something i will be useing when i need to.

    1. I can relate Annie. I’m so thankful for God’s gift of compassion and mercy in you. I pray He will continue to fill you with His Word and release it into the lives of those He draws to you.

  3. Lindsey morrow

    LOVE this!! I will be reading and re-reading this at certain times.
    Praying it over a relationship often.

    1. You are such a great encourager, Lindsey. Thank you for modeling it for me and others.

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