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Overcoming Discouragement

Deal with your "what ifs"

How easily discouraged are you?

I believe discouragement is one of Satan’s hand grenades in the spiritual battle. If God tells us to be strong and courageous, we can be sure that the Accuser is at work to bring the opposite effect.

I have been an easy target, but I am becoming more aware of these flaming arrows of discouragement and their source. During a recent walk with praise music pulsing through my little earbuds, a “not so new” discouraging thought crossed my mind. But this time, I had a little conversation with myself about it.

Me: That is not what God says about me.

Me: Huh! This reoccurring thought is an indication that I have an enemy and he is targeting me.

Me: (Stomping my foot in my spirit) I REFUSE to cooperate with the enemy and this thought.

I really wish I could remember what the thought was about. But what matters is, I learned an important lesson about the source of discouragement.

2 Corinthians 11:14 tells us that “Satan disguises himself as an angel of light.” He plans to enlighten us to his way of thinking and make it seem oh so right. Without the work of the Holy Spirit in my life, I would have once again heard the discouragement and accepted it as what is true about me.

Expressing Our Faith

In today’s culture, we are discouraged from talking about God, His goodness and His power. Thankfully I have friends and family who enjoy talking about God and His goodness. But I haven’t been so brave at expressing my life-giving relationship with God to people who don’t know or trust Him.

Relying on God through prayer is a topic that brings doubtful glances even from the “Christian” community. Just this week I told someone about getting to prayer walk at a local institution and her response was, “Well, I hope it works.”

I’ve been there. I’ve doubted the impact of my prayers more than I care to admit. It’s a faith issue isn’t it? Satan uses discouragement to squash our faith and limit our effectiveness as a witness.

In Bible study this week, I discovered the following Scriptures where God tells us to speak up anyway.

“But speak My words to them whether they listen or refuse to listen, for they are rebellious.” Ezekiel 2:7

“Whether they listen or refuse to listen–for they are a rebellious house–they will know that a prophet has been among them.” Ezekiel 2:5

The truth must be spoken regardless of the listener’s behavior or response. Our devotion to God has to trump every “what if” that rises up in us. We need to dethrone the intimidator.

Deal with your "what ifs"


Resisting the Spirit of Intimidation

Those who rebel against God are often very skilled intimidators. Their words, tone and body language send a firm message of “I’m not listening” and  “You are so wrong!”

Intimidators are skilled at wielding the sword of shame. There are plenty of intimidators in the world and the church. They are fiercely protecting the rules while their minds and hearts are numb to Spirit of Life.

“God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” 2 Timothy 1:7 (emphasis mine)

In his teaching, Breaking Intimidation, John Bevere explains the “fear” in 2 Timothy 1:7 is intimidation. Breaking free from the grip of intimidation is a process. We take steps toward His power, love and self control and away from fear.

I am a recovering coward. In the past, I have been very obliging to the one who pushed his or her opinion as if it was the only way to see life. Just the assumption of an upcoming harsh and disagreeing word worked to quiet me.

Last December, God began to awaken me to the work of intimidators in my life. He helped me to see them as captives of the enemy. The vision He gave me was of a person trapped in a train car looking back at me through barred windows. I was free and at liberty to pray for the one who was behind bars.

Life and Death

Our courage to open our mouths and trust God to fill it with His words of life has a HUGE impact.

“The lips of the righteous feed many, but fools die for lack of sense.” Proverbs 10:21

“My people perish for lack of knowledge.” Hosea 4:6

For me these verses give “life and death are in the power of the tongue” another layer of importance. The Spirit of Life in us is released through our words to feed the people God dearly loves. Without God-breathed wisdom, they will perish.

So we must speak God’s truth from hearts that love the captive. We can’t hesitate just because they might not listen. That would be like withholding CPR because the person might sue us if they live. We must always err on the side of life. Abundant life. Eternal life.

Embracing Boldness

Proverbs 28:1 tells us that “the godly are as bold as lions.” We are bold in faith, bold in hope, bold in love. Jesus displayed this boldness for me and you. His Spirit lives in us to display this boldness through us to those He died to save. We are instruments of His world-changing victory.

boldness in hope leads to unceasing prayerWhen I am bold in faith, I believe that God’s truth can overcome Satan’s lies. I believe His Word is alive and able to bring life where death resides. Therefore, I pray. I speak. I love the angry and distrusting ones.

When I am bold in hope, I pray without ceasing and wait on the Lord expecting breakthrough. I hope in what I know is God’s truth instead of what appears to be true in the present moment.

When I am bold in love, I am undeterred by intimidation. I forgive. I hug. I smile. I pray. I give. I risk every sort of reaction because love does.

Relying on God

Our courage is an extension of our faith in God and devotion to Him. We can go boldly to the throne of God and ask for more courage, more faith and more devotion. Join me in praying for the MORE we need.

God, I exalt Your Holy name. You are the unflinching One. You are the merciful One.

You know how I react to the discouraging thoughts launched at me by the evil one. Forgive me for focusing on myself more than You.

You have commanded me to be strong and courageous and to trust You as my shield and defender. You’ve proven over and over that You use the weak to display Your unlimited power and wisdom. I need this truth to move beyond my head and into my heart.  The fear of rejection is a hurdle I want to fly over. 

Shepherd me to live with the boldness You’ve provided. Open my ears to Your promptings. Fill me so completely with Your love for others that I speak as You inspire me without hesitation. Empower me to pray for others with a listening ear trusting that You will show me what to pray. 

Use me to awaken those who are numb to You. Let Your Words of life flow through me to those who are resisting You. 

Revive me so that with my life You can revive others. 

In Jesus name, I pray believing. Amen

How will you love the intimidators in your life?

How has the confident and courageous faith of someone else impacted your life?

About Jennifer O. White

I'm a simple wife who has discovered God's amazing gift of prayer. Here at Prayerfully Speaking I share my journey of unwrapping this gift. God invites us to ask Him, but His enemy works diligently to keep that from happening. I hope to offer you encouragement to believe God is ready to pour more into your life than you've ever imaged.

4 Replies

  1. bernice

    thank you very much i just needed this and i believe God used you to answer my prayers,God bless you and everyone who is on this site

    1. Bernice, I am thrilled to know that God has used this post to answer a prayer. Praying for you now.

  2. Keisha


    Thank you for the words of Life. I find myself discouraged often because my focus is on everything else but God. After reading you article of how you handled discourgnment and the courage God has instilled in you, moved me along those dark days. You have overcame those obstacles and hurtles and because you did, it gave me hope! Hope to know and believe God fights my battles and every good and perfect thing comes from him so why should I believe anything from the decieving Devil?
    I love you sister and Christ and I pray you continue to be transparent and tell you story


    1. Keisha, I am excited that God is encouraging you today. I’m so thankful to be a small part of what He is doing in your life. Thank you for your prayers for me.